
More parents are getting involved in social network for children and posting the daily activities of their kids like a diary and sharing it with other parents and children.
Totspot is one such social network for toddlers. Parents can blog (or add brief comments like
Twitter) about their children in their own private space called Totspot page and socialize with other parents and share stuff about children.
Dominic Miguel Alexander Carrasco is only 7 months old and already has a blog and his mom adds all his favorite activities and preferences such as his favorite name, favorite book, favorite food etc.
Cameron Chase is only one-month old and his mom has started blogging about him. She added recent activities at their Winter Garden, Florida home and talked about the recent Tropical Storm Fay. Though Cameron cannot understand it yet, his mom Kristin Chase hopes he will find this blog or online scrapbook interesting as he grows up. Kristin blogs about him and updates it almost on a daily basis.
Kristin shares Cameron’s blog with her relatives and with other mothers in the site and exchange information with them. Cameron’s dad blogs about it at another site named
Odadeo, where dads meet and discuss about their babies.
Besides Totspot, Odadeo, there are
Lil’Grams and
Kidmondo. All these sites are
secure and private, only those invited can access the kid’s page.
Amanda Lenhart, a senior research specialist for the Pew Internet & American Life Project told
New York Times:
“It’s an interesting model...Everyone can decide how much or little they want to know about a baby, which avoids the situation of receiving a few too many e-mails about someone’s wonderful child, and parents can decide how much they want to share — in minimal or maximal ways.”
A social network for babies might look odd, but it could be used to share information with families and friends and also keep a history about the baby.
These baby social networks are doing well. Totspot which started recently has more than 15,000 users.
Kidmondo and Lil’Grams, both started last year are also doing well worldwide.
Adam Ostrow, the editor of Mashable said in his blog:
“We’re seeing a rising tide of parenting interest on social networks...Recently, I’ve noticed a lot of Facebook users are adding their children to their profiles.”
This is a natural evolution, almost everyone from every age group are part of social network in some form or the other, why not the babies or children.
At these social networks for babies, parents are choosing profiles based on what their kids like and also choosing what friends they may prefer to hang out.
When Erin Carrasco, 25, mother of Dominic, was pregnant, she became friends with other moms-to-be and they now socialize in Totspot along with their kids. They also formed a group within Totspot and discuss about babies’ health issues.
Julie Ward, 38, on the other hand keeps her son Dixon’s page private and makes it available only for known relatives and friends. Julie blogs about her son's recent activities as it occurs. She recently added an entry when her son ate his first Oreo cookies two weeks ago. She said so far privacy issues are well covered in the site she is blogging.
Though moms and dads use these sites predominantly now, Daniel Hallac and his wife Carole, co-founders of Kidmondo, believe that children will come back and read about it later.
John Palfrey, a professor at Harvard Law School and an author of “Born Digital: Understanding the First Generation of Digital Natives” warns parents posting intimate details about their children online, since security is a big issue online. He told New York Times:
“Whether or not they realize it as such...parents are contributing to their child’s digital dossier. And, who sees that dossier later on may be of concern.”
Karen Kavanaugh, who has a Totspot page for her 7-month-old daughter understands the dangers but said she wants to keep this daily record so that her daughter will enjoy it in the future. Karen only adds stuff that respects her daughter.
Do babies need a social network also? I think so, it will bond parents and children more.